Gain Essential Business Knowledge. I think the LDS have been vastly over-simplifying that doctrine. He made a big deal out of my birthday, holidays, etc. What advice do you have for a newbie. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. We have a happy marriage. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. Be open-minded; accept that different people have different beliefs, and that they do not always have to match with yours.
I married outside the church and have no regrets. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. But marriages don't last if you have to hold back ugly, sarcastic comments when your partner attends religious services or defends religious beliefs. No walking your daughter down the aisle, no giving your daughter away at the alter, nothing but you standing outside the temple waiting till it's over. If my husband and I had been dating during any of this, it would not have lasted long a few weeks maximum. We got married two years ago. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together.
Me and my husband has been married for almost 2 years now, and have been together for almost 12years. What's hard for us, is he doesn't understand why I gladly accept extra hours and work and community service projects, which sometimes impinge on the little time we do have to spend together. So there's THAT to look forward to. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. You need to repent and change. To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. I feel I am not appreciated and valued as a wife. But I got to my breaking point, and after not hearing from him AT ALL for seven days at this point we had been dating and sleeping together for months. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. If you go to mormonthink.
It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. I do not contact my gf every day unless they are online.
